DJ, I reckon they will be males. Especially if they are the snakeskins as they seem to be "late bloomers" with a lovely female looking anal fin but no gravid spot. When they are about 4 months old that anal fin can change into a gonopodium in as little as 48 hours and they develop the full snakeskin look.

Don't put them in with a tank of females too soon or if you do, check them EVERY day for gonopodium development.

Dero worms or Naiad worms are among the detritus eating worms that clean up decaying plant parts. They are commonly found in duckweed and algae mats. Masters in his Encyclopedia of Live Foods mentioned Dero and Nias and a couple of related worms as great fish food. I find them once in a while in my Daphnia cultures.

Tangentally, you didn't feed blackworms and have them get loose in the gravel? Sometimes they will abide and even reproduce there. However the gravel can sour, the blackworms perish and the tank really can bomb - so I work to get them out of the gravel if there are very many. (Don't treat for parasites with blackworms in the gravel.)

You may want to Google for images of the genus Dero, Aeolosoma, Naias. Just to be on the safe side, maybe also Google for aquatic tape worms - in case that came out of one of your fish.

Let us know if there is a big difference and what the worms in your aquarium most likely are. If you have treated those fish for parasites before and recently added plants, I would guess they might be those detrivores which make good fish food. Otherwise, I too would be concerned.